My Fives, July 18, 2012

In our Leadership Awakening classes, we give our students some "homework" to do in the mornings. The homework is to write out 5 things you are excited about and 5 things you are grateful for. This serves lots of purposes, but the main one is to set your mind right! If you start doing your "fives" in the morning, you set your RAS (reticulator activating system, which a stem in your brain where your focus comes from.. basically.) to something GREAT instead of dreading what is going to happen that day or tomorrow.

So I will be posting my FIVES, as much as I can. Here are mine from today!


Five things Im EXCITED about:

1. We get to go to the water park today! I am excited to be in the water and get a tan!
2. We got our For King and Country CD in the mail yesterday! I love those Aussies!
3. Scott and I got our plane tickets for our honeymoon and just put more money down on the trip! WE only owe a little bit more on the vacation, and then we can start saving up for spending moneys!
4. I am excited for our Sacramento class next week, I have some awesome people coming out to staff with me and IM SO EXCITED!
5. My gym membership, and how I actually have been using it! And it makes me feel good!

Five things Im GRATEFUL for:

1. That the God of the Universe loves me enough to be intimately involved in my life!
2. For the love of my future husband, Scott. Even when we butt heads, He always comes back to give me a hug and tells me he loves me. LOVE IS AN ACTION! And my future Husband is full of action!
3. That we have been in our house for so long, I am grateful we are being forced out of here so we can find a NEW place for our NEW family and NEW life together!
4. Red nail polish. I dont know why, but it just makes me happy to be a woman!
5. My little fuzzy kitten Sargent Fuzzy Boots. Hes just SO FUZZY! He knows when we are sad, and he always wants to make us feel good too!

Stars

I feel calm.

Yesterday we got a "foreclosure" note in the mail about our house. Usually when these things happen, I would have the feeling on my heart in my throat.. Tightness in chest, shortness of breath.. But yesterday after opening the FOUR identical letters from the mortgage company, I felt nothing. Not in a bad way, like I was numb, but more of a feeling like it doesn't even matter. It doesn't matter if we get kicked out of our house. It doesn't matter that the economy sucks and our business hasnt been doing well for the last couple of years.

Its a peace that surpasses all understanding. I know that we will be taken care of. It is SO amazing to have this feeling, especially when things like getting past due bills in the mail, or a foreclosure notice. I feel like we are being handfed by the God of the universe. Things might be tight, things might SEEM like they are falling apart, but I cannot shake the feeling that something HUGE is about to happen. Its like the Sidewalk Prophet's song,


"Make empty
So I can be filled
‘Cause I’m still holding
Onto my will
And I’m completed
When you are with me
Make me empty"

Scott always says, "He is the God that gives and takes away, and even when He takes away, He still gives us so much." I really get this now. It seems like everyday a new struggle or problem gets presented to us. But its okay, it always gets handled in the most awesome way. I never understood before doing our Leadership Awakening classes that sometimes God needs to take everything out of us (or around us) so the only thing we can be filled up with is Him. It's our "dirty sponge philosophy" in motion. The only thing that can come out of a dirty sponge is what we put IN it. And in order to put nice clean water in a old dirty sponge, we gotta get rid of all the crap that we have put in it before.

 "Til You are my one desire
‘Til You are my one true love
‘Til You are my breath, my everything
Lord, please keep making me"

I want to be everything I can be for my God, for my future Husband and my future children. I think that the Good Lord put all this stuff in front of us for a good reason! Some people have been calling me extreme, or telling me that I have changed.. They are right. I have changed.

Two years ago, if this happend to me I would probably sleep all day, not wanting to deal with it. I would probably drink my worries away. I would probably be destructive 'because it doesnt matter anyways'. I would say, who cares?

This new me.. Im okay with it but for different reasons. I am okay becasue I can be sober and deal with my problems because I serve  GREAT GOD. I am passionate about everything I do and say. If I seem to aggressive its because IM PASSIONATE! I would rather be alive and loud and crazy then dead and quiet!

Life Lesson: They were right. All you need is LOVE.

Testimonials

God gave us a incredible week!

We just got back from Anthem, Arizona (Phoenix) on Sunday night after doing a Leadership Awakening class there for a church. Wow. The class was a struggle initially, but as always, the end result was just mind blowing! It was our second ever Awakening we did for a church, and let me tell you.. Sunday church service at The New Creation Community Church was AMAZING. It was full of heart, deep soul provoking thoughts and real honesty from all of the church body. People stood up in front of everybody and confessed their idols and asked to be held accountable and we danced and cried out during worship. It truly was full of heart, body and soul.

During this week, we have gotten the chance to peek into the impact the training has had on the graduates from Arizona. There are ten more people in this world that have a fire burning deep in their hearts and souls to change this world for the better. There are ten more people in this world with new eyes to see the broken and the hurting, and with new hands and feet to help them out! Here is a testimonial from the bass player in the worship band.. I just LOVE the way he describes the way the training had a impact on him!

Recommendation Letter.

Being able to be a part of Team 105, in the Like it Matters program, completely changed the way I see the world.

I walked into this with preconceived notions, that were all incorrect, and found not only a new direction to walk, but much more importantly… How to walk it!

I have been playing music in the church band as a bass player for a couple of years, although playing music is always fun, and being on stage was always exciting, I never knew how good it can be when you learn how to let God take over and just “be” in the moment. No more looking at the Music, counting time, worrying about the next note, making sure the stops are clean. A little into the first song and I realized God was playing and I was just a bystander. The Music flowed from my heart, not my head.

Learning how to “turn off” my mind, and let God take over, is a tool I will carry with me forever! Each time I get the chance to use this tool, it keeps getting easier also. Using this in my business, my ministry, and my music makes everything make sense and So much more impactful on those around me. A fun byproduct of the class, is when those you see every day in business, ask you what happened as you seem so much happier!

I have been to Sales seminars, leadership classes, tech trainings, and management schools… None of which really changed anything other than a few techniques… Like It Matters, Changed EVERYTHING for me, and showed that it really DOES matter!

 - Trace Tolby, Anthem, AZ


HOW COOL IS THIS!? I just am beside myself when I get to read letters that people send us like this. God CHOSE me to help with this company. God chose each one of us for a special purpose. And This gets to be my special purpose! I am so blessed.

Reminders

I have learned over the past two years that I have a very unique life. My  schedule, my patterns and my perspective on life in general is vastly different than most people I have met. This isn't a bad thing.. In fact, I wouldn't trade this craziness for anything else.

I own and help run a Leadership Training company. Our training is so intense, so unique, that when people who have gone to many different trainings "like ours" over the years always say, "This was the toughest, yet most powerful thing I have ever done in my entire life." I get to do this at least twice a month! Our trainings run 2 and a half days, from six o clock in the morning to 1 to 3 in the morning! We are not surface dwellers.. We go deep into people's own belief systems and things that have been holding them back from being the people they want to be. We are SCUBA divers, as we like to say. People in our class get the chance to let go of past demons, past experiences, and belief systems that have been haunting them their whole lives, up until now. These are people who, to the rest of the World, look like they have it all! MBA's, PhD's, White picket fences, perfect marriages, 2.5 kids and the perfect car... And when they go through class, I get to expeiernce that even if people LOOK like they have the perfect happy life, 99.9 percent of the time, they always can be better. They can be better spouses, parents and employers/employees.

It's so hard to describe our training unless you have already been through the Leadership Awakening class. My last paragraph totally did not do our classes any justice, but it wil have to do for now until I find better words. It's difficult to describe a life changing expiernce. It's hard to explain that no matter how good people are doing, we could always be better. It's weird to explain how almost every person on God's green Earth has someTHING holding them back.. Whether it be some bad epcxience that happened to them when they were younger, or a bad belief system playing over and over in thier heads, we all have JUNK. We like to call these BLOCKS to Leadership. Things that are holding us back from being the very very best person we can be.

My reasoning for this blog is simple. LIVES CHANGE in our training. Time STOPS. We run out of breath, we SPEND ourselves in a worthy cause. We give 100% of our HEART, BODY AND SOUL to the NOW moment. We give everything in ourselves, so we can get so much more in return. I lose track of time, three days feels like 2 weeks! I have been telling myself I need to document these things that happen with us. and UP UNTILL NOW, I have given myself the excuse that I just dont have enough time.. ENOUGH! Enough with that bad B.S. (belief system), Val! Everyone has the same amount of time.. I just NOW am choosing how to better handle my time in my days on this Planet.

I am excited to be documenting our crazy life.. Our AMAZING experiences in class, (while walking gingerly of course, as I commit to confidentiality to what students say and or do in class), getting ready for class, and after the classes are over. I am excited to be able to look back and see all of the things we do. I need to constantly remind myself what we are doing MATTERS.